That's not what he wants- it's about the man. Agree with Donny here and most likely Erica too. Possibly he's just curious but the point is that he's curious about a man. Also I agree with fubar- and it reminds me of a conversation we had a long time ago about replacing the job with the fun after the blow and how many straight people think of a blow job as requiring "to completion" without the assistance of hands or moving on to something else.
I think we need to change this- the pressure to have to finish it and frustration if the guy doesn't cum from the head bobbing takes a lot of the fun out of it and I think prevents many women from starting in the first place, whereas the enthusiasm and fun comes without this pressure- if the guy does cum that's great but if he needs to lend a hand, that's OK too, and if it gets boring after a bit and moves on to other things, that's fine also, and if this attitude could become more the norm, I think women would be giving more blow jobs. What I found when I was younger was that the expectation was, once you start, you keep it up until they cum, and sometimes it doesn't happen and then the mood turns negative or tedious. If it's a challenge (you have to be very good at this and make me cum) then the partner is likely to be reluctant to keep trying and then never get good at it. "He is wanting to meet a man to have oral sex with." - Does that mean he wants to receive head from a man, give head to a man, or both? I bring this up because the attitude above seems to be a combination of "you need enthusiasm" and "she's probably not good at it" which one prevents the other, etc.Īs for the betrayal, yes it's shitty, and yes he's a lying piece of shit. If he wants to give head to a man, then he's not straight.
Like Dan said: Can you accept being with a man who's somewhere on the bi spectrum? He's bicurious, heteroflexible, or bisexual. If he only wants a no-recip blowjob, the question becomes: Are you giving him blowjobs? If yes, then don't worry about what is "missing" from your sex life.